Learning to Hold Hands Open

We were married thirteen years before becoming parents. Knowing we had a lot of growing up and learning to do, we first chose to wait. Then, when we thought we were ready, the choice was not ours to make. Years of waiting and longing for this moment, loss of one child by miscarriage, when that…

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The How And Why of Learning

My Dad has always said, “Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water,” as a reminder not to throw something good or valuable away because you are trying to get rid of something unwanted.  I’ve been thinking about that phrase and reflecting on how, in our attempts to progress and make improvements, we might…

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The Journey is Easier Without the Extra Weight.

I held my hands open and released my plans,I told God I’d give him everything and everyone. But let’s be honest,Things were going well that day. Then came the roadblock to my plans,And I closed my hands tightly around those plans as I took them back. Immediately, I began exploring ways to get around, over,…

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Reflections on Parenting from the Bowling Alley

Most of us have been bowling or seen the activity on television. Bowling is a game where you roll a ball down a lane in an attempt to knock down pins. Get all the pins, and we call that a strike, the best possible scenario. But if your aim is off or your ball is…

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Live Local, Love Global

I recently shared some words on social media that resonate with people. A reminder that in a world that celebrates bigger as better, we have permission to live small and grow deep roots.  Later, I was watching my favorite fall movie for the second time this season, You’ve Got Mail, and the words of Kathleen…

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