Learning to Hold Hands Open

We were married thirteen years before becoming parents. Knowing we had a lot of growing up and learning to do, we first chose to wait. Then, when we thought we were ready, the choice was not ours to make. Years of waiting and longing for this moment, loss of one child by miscarriage, when that…

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Reflections on Parenting from the Bowling Alley

Most of us have been bowling or seen the activity on television. Bowling is a game where you roll a ball down a lane in an attempt to knock down pins. Get all the pins, and we call that a strike, the best possible scenario. But if your aim is off or your ball is…

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Summer Planning, an Invitation to Remember How to Play.

While we have only now fully emerged into spring, I am already finding myself preparing for summer activities and making decisions about our schedules for fall. I’m not sure how we got here so quickly. When the boys were little, I loved planning for summers. I would make summer binders with printed calendars and space…

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No Such Thing as a Perfect Parent.

The little girl walks bravely across the street to deliver a special letter while mom watches over her from the porch steps of their home. The little boy eagerly runs around the block playing with his friends, not knowing that moms communicate via text monitoring their location. The preteens are finally allowed to cross the…

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